Tighten oversized request handling across relay paths and make error matching reliable.
- Align `MAX_REQUEST_BODY_MB` fallback to `32` in request body reader and decompression middleware
- Stop ignoring `GetRequestBody` errors in relay retry paths; return consistent **413** on oversized bodies (400 for other read errors)
- Add `Unwrap()` to `types.NewAPIError` so `errors.Is/As` can match wrapped underlying errors
- `go test ./...` passes
