🛡️ fix: prevent OOM on large/decompressed requests; skip heavy prompt meta when token count is disabled
Clamp request body size (including post-decompression) to avoid memory exhaustion caused by huge payloads/zip bombs, especially with large-context Claude requests. Add a configurable `MAX_REQUEST_BODY_MB` (default `32`) and document it.
- Enforce max request body size after gzip/br decompression via `http.MaxBytesReader`
- Add a secondary size guard in `common.GetRequestBody` and cache-safe handling
- Return **413 Request Entity Too Large** on oversized bodies in relay entry
- Avoid building large `TokenCountMeta.CombineText` when both token counting and sensitive check are disabled (use lightweight meta for pricing)
- Update READMEs (CN/EN/FR/JA) with `MAX_REQUEST_BODY_MB`
- Fix a handful of vet/formatting issues encountered during the change
- `go test ./...` passes
